Ain't No Way to Treat a Lady


"Ain't No Way to Treat a Lady" is a 1974 written and first recorded by American singer-songwriter Harriet Schock. It was covered by various other artists, and saw its greatest success when it was covered by Helen Reddy, whose 1975 rendition became a top-ten hit.

Writing and early versions

An apparent farewell to a self-absorbed lover, "Ain't No Way to Treat a Lady" was written by Harriet Schock, who would recall writing the song while in the process of "leaving someone for... one of the last times I left him for the last time". The song's title and first verse lyrics occurred to Schock and were jotted down on a napkin while flying back from a Las Vegas vacation, with the song's lyrics completed and its melody written at Schock's Los Angeles home.
Schock included the song on her 1974 album Hollywood Town, and it was issued as a single in the summer of 1974. Schock would recall that a music director of a key Top 40 station in Los Angeles indicated that he would playlist the track if it had a more uptempo arrangement. A customized remix of the track was sent on a Friday to both the Los Angeles station and a San Francisco station, both of whom purportedly would begin airing the track on Monday. However, according to Schock, on Sunday the music director in Los Angeles had a fight with the station's director and left his job, and any interest that station - and also the one in San Francisco - had in Schock's single evidently departed with him.
"Ain't No Way to Treat a Lady" also had a single release - concurrent with that of Schock's version - as recorded by the studio group LAX, and was recorded by Vikki Carr for her 1974 album One Hell of a Woman.

Helen Reddy version

Overview

recorded "Ain't No Way to Treat a Lady" for her August 1975 Capitol Records album No Way to Treat a Lady. According to Schock, Reddy had heard the composer's version either as inflight music or on the radio. Although the choice for advance single release from No Way to Treat a Lady went to the Leon Russell composition "Bluebird" - which would swiftly ascend into the Top 40 on the Billboard Hot 100 - Capitol Records were moved to rush release a single release of "Ain't No Way to Treat a Lady" parallel with the release of its parent album, leaving "Bluebird" to stall at #35, becoming the least successful lead single from a Helen Reddy album since "No Sad Song", from Reddy's second album Helen Reddy, which hit #62 in 1972.
"Ain't No Way to Treat a Lady" would afford Reddy a sixth and final Top Ten hit on Billboard's Hot 100 and - on 4 October 1975 - became the seventh of her eight singles to reach #1 on the magazine's Easy Listening chart. On the Canadian hit parade as ranked by RPM, "Ain't No Way to Treat a Lady" rose to #2, making it Reddy's highest charting Canadian hit after "I am Woman" and "Delta Dawn", both of which reached the #1 position on the RPM chart.. "Ain't No Way to Treat a Lady" was also a hit in New Zealand, and became Reddy's final chart item in her native Australia at #94.

Chart performance

Weekly charts
Year-end charts

Harriet Schock's perspective

Composer Harriet Schock has suggested that while her intent in writing "Ain't No Way to Treat a Lady" was to reference a specific personal experience, the song has come to be seen as a statement of how women are generally treated by men "because it was a hit by , the same artist who spoke so widely for all women in 'I Am Woman'... apparently other women wanted to say to someone. I received a number of calls from women telling me it was just the kick they needed to get that divorce."

Later releases

"Ain't No Way to Treat a Lady" as performed live at the London Palladium in May 1978 may be heard on the 1978 Helen Reddy concert album release Live in London, the song being one of eleven performed as a medley.
In 2005, Raven Records Australia reissued the song as a two-fer with "One Way Ticket" included as a bonus track.

Other versions

A disco version of "Ain't No Way to Treat a Lady" was recorded by Gonzalez and issued as the followup to their 1979 hit "Haven't Stopped Dancin' Yet" but it was not a success. The song has also been recorded by :ms:Anita Sarawak|Anita Sarawak and - in Swahili - by Letta Mbulu.
A Finnish rendition of the song: "Sä Tunnet Mun", was recorded by Eija Merilä while the French rendition " Je Veux T'aimer Comme Une Femme" was recorded by Mireille Mathieu.