Butler was born Brett Anderson in Montgomery, Alabama, the eldest of five sisters. she was four-years old when her father, Roland Decatur Anderson Jr., an oil-company executive, moved the family to Houston, Texas. Her mother, Carol left Roland who was an abusive alcoholic and moved with their children to Miami. Her mother battled depression, and the family was sometimes so poor that they ate Tootsie Rolls for dinner. Butler briefly attended the University of Georgia. Before experiencing success as a stand-up comic, she worked as a cocktail waitress. In 1978, at the age of 20, Butler married her first husband, Charles Michael Wilson three months after their meeting. Wilson was abusive and in 1981 she left him. Since then, he has both admitted and adamantly denied battering Butler, while claiming that she too was violent. She returned to her mother in Miami, and began performing in comedy clubs. She moved to New York City in 1984, and was arrested for possession of marijuana. In New York City, she would meet her second husband, Ken Zieger, and they got married in 1987. In 1987, Butler made her television debut on The Tonight Show. Also that year, she performed on Dolly Parton's ill-fated variety series, Dolly. Parton hired Butler as a writer for the remainder of the show's season, but the series was subsequently cancelled after one season of lackluster ratings.''
''Grace Under Fire'' and beyond
In 1993, Butler went to star in the ABC comedy series Grace Under Fire created by Chuck Lorre. Butler starred as Grace Kelly, a divorced single mother and recovering alcoholic. The show begins after the main character divorces her abusive alcoholic husband of eight years in an attempt to start life anew and prevent her children from making the same mistakes she did. For her performance, Butler received two Golden Globe Awards nominations for Best Actress – Television Series Musical or Comedy in 1995 and 1997, and won People's Choice Awards for Favorite Female Performer in 1994. She reprised her role of Grace Kelly in The Drew Carey Show and Ellen in 1997. Butler published her memoir, Knee Deep in Paradise, in 1996. The book was started before attaining her celebrity status, and candidly addresses much of this time, ending the autobiography before Grace Under Fire's television debut. Behind the scenes, Butler battled a recurring drug addiction and spent time in rehab. In February 1998, due to her erratic behavior stemming from substance abuse, she was dismissed from the show and ABC cancelled the series. After Grace was cancelled in 1998, Butler moved from Los Angeles to a farm in Rome, Georgia, where she lived with 15 pets. The following years she made selected screen appearances in films Bruno and Mrs. Harris, and guest-starred on episode of NBC sitcom My Name Is Earl in 2005. In 2008, Butler headlined at an arts fundraiser and spoke freely with a reporter about her depression, past drug addiction, television work, and current life on a farm. She also expressed interest in writing another book.
Return to acting
In October 2011, Butler appeared on The Rosie Show and reported being sober since 1998. A 2011 Hollywood Reporter article said that when the money ran out she turned to a homeless shelter for cover. By this time Butler was attempting to make a career comeback and was working on developing a reality TV show about her self-professed psychic abilities and performing at the Downtown Comedy Club in Los Angeles. In June 2012, Butler appeared in a recurring role on the CBSdaytime soap operaThe Young and the Restless playing ex-psychiatrist Tim Reid's girlfriend. She returned for two episodes in March 2015. Later in 2012, she began appearing in a recurring role as the bartender at the restaurant that Charlie Goodson frequents in the FX comedy series Anger Management. Butler appeared in a total of 38 episodes from 2012 to 2014. In 2016, she played herself in the comedy-drama film The Comedian starring Robert De Niro. In recent years, Butler began appearing in dramatic roles. She guest-starred in two episodes of HBO drama series The Leftovers, and had a recurring role as Michaela's adoptive mother Trishelle in the ABC legal thrillerHow to Get Away with Murder in 2016. From 2018 to 2019, she played Tammy Rose Sutton in the AMC horror series, The Walking Dead. Also in 2019, she took a recurring role as Sandy Jackson, the mother of Reese Witherspoon's character in the Apple TV+ drama series, The Morning Show.