Charlotte Paget, Marchioness of Anglesey


Charlotte Paget, Marchioness of Anglesey, formerly Lady Charlotte Wellesley, formerly Lady Charlotte Cadogan, was the second wife of Henry Paget, 1st Marquess of Anglesey.

Early life

She was the daughter of the former Mary Churchill and Charles Cadogan, 1st Earl Cadogan, MP for Cambridge and Master of the Mint. Among her siblings were Henry Cadogan, George Cadogan, 3rd Earl Cadogan, and Lady Emily Cadogan. Her father's first wife, the former Hon. Frances Bromley and from that marriage, she had several older half-siblings, including Charles Cadogan, 2nd Earl Cadogan, Rev. William Cadogan, Thomas Cadogan, and George Cadogan.
Her father was the only son of Charles Cadogan, 2nd Baron Cadogan and the former Elizabeth Sloane. Her maternal grandparents were Charles Churchill, MP for Stockbridge and Great Marlow, and the former Lady Mary Walpole. Her mother was a niece of John Churchill, 1st Duke of Marlborough.
In 1800, her father was raised to the peerage as the first Earl Cadogan, and Charlotte was afforded the courtesy title of Lady Charlotte as the daughter of an Earl.

Personal life

On 20 September 1803, Lady Charlotte was married to Henry Wellesley, the fifth and youngest son of Garret Wellesley, 1st Earl of Mornington and the Hon. Anne Hill-Trevor. He was the younger brother of Arthur Wellesley, 1st Duke of Wellington, Richard Wellesley, 1st Marquess Wellesley and William Wellesley-Pole, 3rd Earl of Mornington. Together, they were the parents of four children:
In 1810, Lord Cowley divorced Charlotte by an Act of Parliament on the grounds of her adultery with the Marquess of Anglesey, then Lord Paget. It was claimed that Paget had pursued her ruthlessly and that she had asked her husband to stay close to her in public "for the express purpose of avoiding Lord P's importunities".
At the divorce trial, several witnesses stated that the couple had an affectionate relationship. Charlotte's brother Henry Cadogan challenged Paget to a duel; honour was satisfied, though neither was injured. Following the divorce, Wellesley was awarded £24,000 in damages against Paget. Referring to the incident in later years, when Paget, now Lord Uxbridge, was assigned to Wellington as his second-in-command at the Battle of Waterloo, Wellington is said to have commented: "Lord Uxbridge has the reputation of running away with everybody he can. I’ll take good care he don’t run away with me.”
In 1810, following Paget's divorce by his wife Caroline, Lady Charlotte and Paget were married. Together, Charlotte and her second husband had ten children, of whom seven survived infancy, including:
Her second husband was raised to the peerage on 13 March 1812, and Lady Charlotte became the Countess of Uxbridge and upon his further elevation on 4 July 1815, she became the Marchioness of Anglesey. In January 1828, many years after their divorced and Wellesley's remarriage, he was created Baron Cowley of Wellesley in the County of Somerset, due to his brother's influence with the prime minister, Lord Goderich.
The Marchioness of Anglesey died on 8 July 1853. Her widower, the Marquess of Anglesey, died at Uxbridge House in London on 29 April 1854.