Darwin Ramos was born on December 17, 1994 in Doña Marta Maternity Hospital, in Pasay, Metro Manila. Darwin spent his early years with his family along P. Villanueva St., Pasay. Their house was in a slum between EDSA and Libertad LRT stations. Darwin was the second child of a very poor family. His mother worked as a laundrywoman to earn some money to provide for her family while his father was an alcoholic. In order to help his family, Darwin became a scavenger in the street, with his sister Marimar who was two years younger. They spent their day going through garbage to recover plastic waste which they sold. The children did not go to school because of grave financial situation. The initial symptoms of what later would be diagnosed as Duchenne muscular dystrophy appeared. This began as weakness in the legs. Then, his mother noticed that Darwin was stumbling increasingly. Progressively, Darwin could no longer stand as his muscles weakened further. Poverty pushed the family to live on the street. His father took advantage of Darwin’s illness and he would position Darwin every morning at the Libertad station to beg from passers-by who took pity on the boy. In spite of the terrible shame felt by Darwin, hundreds of pesos fell into his hands which he held out painfully. His father frequently took a large portion of the money to buy alcohol. Darwin would not complain as long as a sufficient portion was left to feed his brothers and sisters. In 2006, a group of street educators of the Tulay ng Kabataan Foundation, went into contact with Darwin while he was panhandling at the Libertad station, and offered to take him in. Darwin agreed as he no longer could stand up straight, and was using his hands and remained seated.
2006–2012: Life at the ''Tulay ng Kabataan'' Foundation
At the Tulay ng Kabataan Foundation, Darwin lived with boys and girls with special needs caused by different disabilities. He was baptized under Catholic rite on December 23, 2006 at the Shrine of Mary, Queen of Peace, Our Lady of EDSA. One year after, he received First Communion and Confirmation from Auxiliary Bishop of Manila, Broderick Pabillo., D.D., at the chapel of the Major Seminary of San Carlos, Guadalupe. Darwin increasingly suffered more respiratory distress that required consecutive hospitalizations. He uplifted the staff and the children at the Foundation by the way he lived with his illness. He was constantly repeating "Thank you" and "I love you". He never complained and always smiled even during most difficult times. He was attentive to all and showed support to the other children at the Foundation in their trials. He had the habit of offering his sufferings. When he was speaking of his own illness, he did not talk about his myopathy but of what he called as being his "mission". One day, he said to the priest of the Foundation : "You know Father, I think Jesus wants me to hold on until the end, just like he did". Darwin developed a deep personal relationship with Christ. Not a day passed that the young boy did not take time out to entrust himself to Jesus. A caregiver from the Foundation testified: "One day, when Darwin was feverish, he insisted to be helped in getting out of bed to join the others in the center so that he could lead the evening prayer. It was Jesus before anything else".
September 2012: Darwin's final week
On Sunday, September 16, 2012, the nurse of the Foundation decided to bring Darwin to the because he had difficulty breathing. When the priest in charge of the Tulay ng Kabataan Foundation arrived at his bedside, the first thing that Darwin did was to excuse himself for causing the priest worries. Darwin added as he breathed laboriously: "Thank you for everything Father". Then began what some would describe as "Darwin's Holy Week": On Monday, September 17, Darwin was intubated. He was not able to talk anymore. It was only possible to lip-read him, but he was able to write in a notebook. On Thursday, September 20, Darwin experienced a spiritual battle, his Maundy Thursday:
Darwin: “We must pray.”
Priest: “Of course Darwin, but why do you need to pray?”
Darwin then received the Anointing of the Sick. On Friday, September 21, he looked peaceful and had a big smile. He wrote his two last sentences in a notebook: "A huge thank you" and "I am very happy" as a sign of a battle won. Darwin, intimately united with the Lord in his suffering, was already sharing the joy. On Saturday, Darwin entered into a great silence while remaining conscious. He died on Sunday, September 23, 2012, at sunrise, at the PCMC in Quezon City). The funeral mass was celebrated in a full church, attended by all the children of the Tulay ng Kabataan Foundation. Darwin was buried in the Pasay City Cemetery.
Cause for beatification and canonization
In the Philippines, the memory of Darwin's life remains in the minds of many. People continue to gather at his tomb in Pasay City Cemetery. In France, Father Matthieu Dauchez wrote a book in 2015 entitled Plus fort que les ténèbres'. In 2016, wrote another book entitled Prophètes de la Beauté' with the initial pages dedicated to the life of Darwin Ramos. Many readers were touched by his example of Joy and Love through disease and suffering, throughout his adolescence, and his countless testimonies of the graces received by his intercession: "In spite of the disease, it is his joy of living and his luminous glance that will have touched more than one. Darwin has left the image of a young boy edifying with holiness, who despite his young age, quickly realized that his illness, much more than an irreversible ordeal, was none the less a mission... A mission guided by the One he loved so much to call his Friend: Jesus." In 2018, the "Darwin Ramos Association" requested from His Excellency Honesto Ongtioco, Bishop of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Cubao, to open the Cause for beatification and canonization of Darwin Ramos. The Darwin Ramos Association on March 14, 2018 assigned the Dominican Father Thomas de Gabory as Postulator. His Excellency Honesto Ongtioco confirmed this nomination by Decree of May 25, 2018. The Postulator officially addressed the written request to open the Cause of beatification and canonization of Darwin Ramos on June 20, 2018. The acceptance letter was signed on November 7, 2018. Father Robert T. Young, a Filipino Canon lawyer, was nominated as vice-postulator. After having obtained the Nihil obstat of the Congregation for the Causes of Saints in Rome, and after the consultation of the faithful by the publication of the Edict during 2 months, the Cause was officially open in public on August 28, 2019 at the Immaculate Conception cathedral of Cubao by His Excellency Honesto Ongtioco. An Ecclesiastical Tribunal was assign to hear witnesses.
Prayer for beatification
The prayer for beatification got the imprimatur of Honesto Ongtioco, Bishop of Cubao, on November 22, 2018: "O God of all Joy, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, you never leave alone those who are in a time of trial. We thank you for giving us, in Darwin Ramos, a street child, an illuminating example of Christian life. During his short life you gave him the grace of simple never-failing faith, of joyful hope in illness, of endless charitable concern for his neighbor. We pray you grant your servant Darwin glorification on earth so that young and sick people may find in him a master of Joy. Through his intercession, hear our prayer,. We ask this, through Jesus Christ, our Lord, Amen."
