Singh was born in a Sobti Khatri family of Sialkot to father Bhai Suddha and mother Mai Diali. Bhai Suddhi was a devout Sikh of Guru Tegh Bahadur and had visited Anandpur more than once to seek his blessing. In 1677, he travelled to Anandpur along with his family including his young son, Daya Ram, to make obeisance to Guru Gobind Singh, this time to settle there permanently. Daya Ram, already well versed in Punjabi and Persian, engaged himself in the study of classics and gurbani. He also received training in the use of weapons. In the historic divan in the Keshgarh Fort at Anandpur on 30 March 1699, Daya Ram was the first to rise at the Guru's call and offer his head, followed by four others in succession. These five were the first to be admitted to the fold of the Khalsa and they in turn administered the rites of initiation to Guru Gobind Singh who called them collectively Panj Pyare - The Five Beloved Ones. Daya Ram after initiation became Daya Singh. Although the five enjoyed equal status as the Guru's close confidants and constant attendants, Singh was always regarded as the first among equals. He took part in the battles of Anandpur, and was one of the three Sikhs who followed Guru Gobind Singh out of Chamkaur on the night of 7/8 December 1705, eluding the besieging hordes. He was Guru Gobind Singh's emissary sent from the village of Dina in the Punjab to deliver his letter which became famous as Zafarnamah, the Letter of Victory, to Emperor Aurangzeb, then camping at Ahmadnagar. Bhai Daya Singh, accompanied by Bhai Dharam Singh reached Ahmadnagar via Aurangabad, but found that it was not possible to personally deliver the letter to the Emperor as Guru Gobind Singh had directed. Daya Singh sent Dharam Singh back to seek the Guru's advice, but before the latter could rejoin him with fresh instructions, he had managed to have the letter delivered, and had himself returned to Aurangabad. "Gurudwara Bhai Daya Singh, Ahmednagar" marks the place of Jafarnama at Ahmednagar. A shrine called Gurdwara Bhai Daya Singh marks the place of his sojourn in Dhami Mahalla. Bhai Daya Singh and Bhai Dharam Singh returned and, according to Sikh tradition, they rejoined Guru Gobind Singh at Kalayat, a town 52 km southwest of Bikaner in Rajasthan. Bhai Daya Singh remained in attendance upon the Guru and was with him at the time of his death at Nanded on 7 October 1708. Bhai Daya Singh died at Nanded soon afterwards. A joint memorial stands at Nanded to preserve the memory of Bhai Daya Singh and Bhai Dharam Singh, who also died there. Known as Angitha, it marks the site of their cremation. Bhai Daya Singh was a learned man. One of the Rahitnamas is ascribed to him. The Nirmalas, a sect of Sikh ascetics, claim him as one of their forebears. Their Darauli branch traces its origin to Bhai Daya Singh through Baba Deep Singh.
