Helena de Kay Gilder was an American illustrator and artist from New York City.
Early life
Helena de Kay Gilder was born in New York City in 1846 to her father George Coleman de Kay, and her mother Janet de Kay. Her father was a naval officer who died when she was only two years old. After her father's death, her mother moved her and her brother, George, to Dresden Germany where they lived until 1861, before moving back to the United States so her mother could be closer to her older sister Katherine after she became a mother. She was then enrolled in a girl's boarding school located in Farmington, Connecticut. She then studied art at the Cooper Union Institute and National Academy of Design, as well as receiving instruction from artists Winslow Homer and John La Farge. In 1871-72 she was a student in the first life drawing class for women at the National Academy of Design.
Children
Gilder had seven children. Her son, Rodman de Kay Gilder, and her youngest daughter, Rosamond de Kay Gilder, were authors. Her daughter Dorothea de Kay Gilder had a short career as a stage actress.
Marriage
In May 1872, Helena met her husband, Richard Watson Gilder, in the offices of Scribner's Monthly, where Richard was then working as a managing editor. In February 1874, Helena and Richard announced their engagement, and by June of that year they were married. Richard is best known for his work as a poet. Some of his works include The New Day, Five Books of Song, In the Heights, and several more. Helena and Richard amassed a large number of letters in correspondence with each other over their marriage, and Helena was the subject of several love poems written by her husband.
Work
Gilder aspired to be an oil painter, and often did the accompanying illustrations for her husband's books of poetry, like Two Worlds: and Other Poems. Helena de Kay Gilder's best known work was cited as "her figure pictures, 'The Young Mother' and 'The Last Arrow' " by The Art Amateur. Her impact on the art world spread beyond her own art production. Gilder contributed to the art world by helping to organize the Arts Student League in 1875, and co-found the Society of American Artists in 1887 which provided primary younger classically artists with the opportunity to be a part of an alternative association. Her motivation for starting the organization occurred after she showed one painting at The National Academy of Design's annual show, while she was there as a student. Her painting received a poor location within the show and she felt her paintings location reflected the academy's reluctance to accept new types of art. The goal of the Society of American Artists was to move in a different direction than the National Academy and other conventional artists groups, while showing that art is valid in many different forms and styles, and can be left up to the artist. Along with Gilder, writers including Clarence Cook, Charles de Kay, Richard C. Brown, and her husband Richard Watson Gilder criticized the conservative mindset of the National Academy of Design.
Helena de Kay Gilder is often known as a muse and romantic interest of Winslow Homer. It is thought that Gilder and Winslow may have met through her brother Charles, who had been connected to Winslow since 1867. He had stayed in studio in the University Building in New York City while Winslow was in France at the time. Gilder and Winslow spent a considerable amount of time together, and it is the correspondence through letters that have given indication that Winslow made multiple attempts to romantically pursue her. Though Homer is known to have painted several women in upscale resorts across the Northeast, Gilder is known to be one of the few that is nameable. Gilder is known to be the female subject in many of his works like The Butterfly , as well as speculated to be the subject of other unconfirmed works by Homer. One of Gilder's best known friendships was will illustrator Mary Hallock Foote. Though from very different social circles, and socioeconomic backgrounds, the two became close friends while they were students, and shared a lengthy correspondence throughout their lives. Gilder and Foote had large impacts on each other's careers as they both provided each other with critiques and feedback on their work, and Gilder's husband offered Foote several artistic commissions for his magazine. It was also through the Gilders that Foote was introduced to several other female artists and publishers at the time. Helena de Kay Gilder died on May 28, 1916.
