Kevin Killian was raised Roman Catholic and attended a Roman Catholic parochial school run by Franciscan friars. He discussed these experiences in an essay in the edited work Wrestling with the Angel. He was also the New York Cityspelling bee champion. Killian attended graduate school at Stony Brook University in the 1970s and moved to San Francisco in 1980. He was bisexual and fellow author Dodie Bellamy is bisexual. The couple were married for 33 years and had an active heterosexual sex life. Killian admired the work of JT LeRoy, and held public readings of LeRoy's work in 2000. As a beginning novelist, Killian tied for first place in the "Hamming Up Hammett" Dashiell Hammett bad-writing contest in San Francisco in 1988. Author Dodie Bellamy featured him as a partially fictional character in her vampire novelThe Letters of Mina Harker. His poetry has appeared in the anthologyThe Best American Poetry 1988, the magazine Discontents, and the anthology Good Times: Bad Trips. Killian once based a volume of poetry on the work of horror film directorDario Argento. Killian also helped author Alvin Orloff polish chapters of his novel Gutterboys. Noted author Edmund White described his work as "a kind of mandarin American casualness that is peculiar to … West Coast writers … a school of refined but deceptively offhand stylists." The Village Voice called My Vocabulary Did This to Me: The Collected Poetry of Jack Spicer, which he co-edited with Peter Gizzi, "impeccably edited". The work was also highly praised by The New York Times. Killian's 2009 collection of short gay erotic fiction Impossible Princess won the Lambda Literary Foundation Award for best gay men's erotica. The first story in the collection, "Young Hank Williams," was written with Canadian cult writer Derek McCormack. The collection was inspired by Kylie Minogue's album of the same name and, in turn, it inspired Conrad Tao's piano composition "All I Had Forgotten Or Tried To". Killian was founder and former director of Small Press Traffic. He also edited the poetry 'zineMirage. Killian died from cancer on June 15, 2019.
Poets Theater and retrospective work
Killian's interest in theatre emerged in the early 1980s when he saw experimental plays by Carla Harryman. Harryman and Tom Mandel subsequently cast him in their play Fist of the Colossus. He co-founded the Poets Theater in San Francisco, and acted in as well as wrote pieces for the group. As of 2001, he had written 31 plays. He co-authored the performance art piece The Red and the Green in 2005 with cinematographer Karla Milosevich. In 2009, Killian and David Brazil co-edited a collection of Poets Theater pieces, The Kenning Anthology of Poets Theatre: 1945–1985. Killian was also active in bringing attention to important LGBTQ artists and writers of the 1960s, 1970s, and 1980s. He held poetry readings of a wide number of influential poets and writers and participated in a number of panels, art installations, retrospectives, and memorials. For example, in 2008 he was a featured speaker at a University of Maine "Poetry of the 1970s" conference. He and artist Colter Jacobsen also helped organize a tribute to the Kiki Gallery, an influential art gallery in San Francisco in the 1980s that featured the work of LGBTQ artists.