Missing man table

Observance

Description

• A small table set for one, symbolising the isolation of the absent service member. The table is usually set close to, or within sight of, the entrance to the dining room. For large events, the missing man table may be set for six places representing each of the five armed services, with the sixth symbolising the civilians who died during armed conflict. The table is round to represent the everlasting concern the survivors have for the missing.
• One or more head covers may be placed upon the table to represent the armed service of the missing persons.
• A white tablecloth to symbolise the pure intentions of the service members who responded to the country's call to arms.
• A single rose in the vase symbolising the blood that service members have shed in sacrifice to ensure the freedom of the United States of America. This rose also represents the family and friends who keep the faith while awaiting the return of the missing service members.
• The red ribbon represents a love of country that inspired the service members to serve the country.
• A slice of lemon on the bread plate that represents the bitter fate of the missing.
• Salt sprinkled on the bread plate that symbolises the tears shed by waiting families.
• An inverted glass to represent the fact that the missing and fallen cannot partake.
• A Bible represents the spiritual strength and faith to sustain the lost. This may be omitted in official displays..
• A lit candle symbolises a light of hope that lives in hearts to illuminate the missing's way home.
• An empty chair to represent the absence of the missing and fallen