It took Rose years to tell her family how she felt, but when she did, they were devastated. When she decided to transition in 2004, her family used violent means to prevent her and even looked at marriage as a possible solution. She was hit by her brother and was locked up in a room. She even attempted to commit suicide. She was thrown out of her house and she worked for a while in a call centre. She currently lives with her family who only conditionally accept her. Her mother has broken off all ties and has moved out of their house. In 2010, she made the decision to get sexual reassignment surgery done in Thailand, something that received significant media attention.
Career
Television
Rose made her television debut in the talk showIppadikku Rose which aired on Vijay TV. The show dealt with current affairs touching a wide variety of social issues including traditions, taboos, rebels and culture and had an audience of tens of millions. The show began in February 2008 and ended in April 2009, with Rose shifting to Kalaignar TV for the show Idhu Rose Neram in July 2009. In the show, she played a US-born Tamil character who studies Indology and invites people to her home for discussions on issues such as obesity.
Radio
Having ended her television career in 2010, she became a Radio Jockey at BIG FM 92.7 in June 2011, airing the afternoon show Rosudan Pesungal on Weekdays.
She will be making her directorial debut with Cricket Scandal, which also features her in the lead with Kishan as the male lead. --> She is also making plans for films featuring transgendered characters and is looking for a production partner for her reality television series about gender reassignment surgery.
Activism
Rose has been a vocal supporter of LGBTQ rights, women's rights and free sexual expression. Over the years, she has built her career around openly raising societal issues through the medium of radio and politics as well. Currently involved in organic farming on the outskirts of Chennai and working as a freelance in the corporate sector, Rose trains employees to get their American accent right and teaches them English grammar and speech. According to her, there is more maturity in the corporate world but it is not without its problems pertaining to discrimination based not only on sexuality but also gender.
Controversies
At a press meet that she had organized, the audience from the press was totally packed however, none of the newspapers had covered it. In instance of discrimination against transgender people, a journalist from a reputed English newspaper had once approached her for contacts of sex workers for personal use. Although afraid of the backlash, Rose said that she will continue to be in media until she exposes their hypocrisy.