Henrica Maria Paré was born as the youngest of three children by Nicolaas Paré who owned a brickyard. She was usually called by her nickname Zus. Paré had a talent for drawing from an early age, and when she moved to The Hague in 1919, she was instructed by the painter. The next year, she met the female singer Do Versteegh whom she befriended for life. She also participated in the painting classes at the Royal Academy of Art without enrolling, and was taught by Jan Toorop. From 1930 onwards, she signed her painting as Ru Paré. Paré exhibited her work inAmsterdam and The Hague. She quickly became a known figure in the artistic circles of The Hague, and became a member of the Haagse Kunstkring.
On 20 June 1942, the Haagse Kunstkring sent a request to register at the . She immediately revoked her membership. She had befriended Nico van der Veen who was in contact with the Utrecht Children’s Committee. Paré first started to find shelter for the two children of F.H. Lankhout, a printer from The Hague. Ultimately she managed to find shelter for 52 Jewish children. She used friends and acquaintances to find safe hiding places. Sometimes she had to travel as far as Boornbergum to find a hiding place for a child. She had created a false bottom in her painters box, and spend her days going back and forth with food, presents, money, and false papers. Paré had some contacts with the resistance, but mainly worked independently. All 52 children who knew her as Tante Zus survived World War II.
After the war Paré moved into her parent's house together with Do Versteegh, and started painting again. She made sure that all children were taken care over. Nine children who had been orphaned were adopted by the Levin family who emigrated to Israel. Paré kept into contact with most of the children. She avoided publicity, and rarely talked about the past in the letters to the children. In 1968, Yad Vashem honoured Paré as Righteous Among the Nations at the nomination of the Levin family. She testified in 1970 at the Weinrebinvestigation of the NIOD that she had saved 52 children. Do Versteegh died in 1970. On 25 February 1972, a friend discovered Ru Paré's body in the bathroom.
Aftermath
In 1988, The Hague namad a street Ru-Paréstraat. In Amsterdam, the Ru Paré Community, a school and neighbourhood centre has been named after her. In 2020, The Hague named a school after Ru Paré. The renaming was a request of the politician Hanneke Gelderblom who - as a child - was taken from The Hague to Eerde by Ru Paré.
