Ateş was born in Istanbul, Turkey, of a Turkish mother and a Kurdish father. Her family moved to West Berlin when she was six years old, part of a wave of immigration of Turks to Germany. She excelled at school, but felt oppressed by the cultural expectations within her family and immigrant community. She left home aged 17 to avoid an arranged marriage, and studied law at the Free University of Berlin.
Career
While working at a women's centre in 1984, she was shot in the neck by a Turkish nationalist. The client she was counselling was killed by the attacker, and Ates, during her long recuperation, decided to devote herself even more to helping Turkish-background women achieve their rights in Germany. She has practiced law since 1997, specializing in criminal law and family law. Her views, highly critical of an immigrant Muslim society that is often more conservative than its counterpart in Turkey, have put her at risk. Her German language book, Islam needs a sexual revolution, was scheduled for publication in Germany in 2009. In an interview in January 2008 on National Public Radio, Ateş stated that she was in hiding, and would not be working on Muslim women's behalf publicly, due to the threats against her. In one particular incident, she and her client were attacked by a woman's husband in a German courthouse in front of onlookers who did nothing. Ateş opened the Ibn Ruschd-Goethe mosque in 2017, located in a church. It is the only liberal mosque in Germany, that is, one where men and womenpray together, and women can take the role of imam leading a prayer. The Turkish religious authority and the Egyptian Fatwa Council at the Al-Azhar University have condemned her project, and she has received death threats. The fatwa encompassed all present and future liberal mosques. According to Ateş, many liberal Muslims do not come forward due to threats and fear. In May 2018 she became an ambassador for the registered association intaktiv e.V., which opposes the circumcision of male children.
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