Chinese honorifics
Chinese honorifics and honorific language are words, word constructs, and expressions in the Chinese language that convey self-deprecation, social respect, politeness, or deference. Once ubiquitously employed in ancient China, a large percent has fallen out of use in the contemporary Chinese lexicon. The promotion of vernacular Chinese during the New Culture Movement of the 1910s and 1920s in China further hastened the demise of a large body of Chinese honorifics previously preserved in the vocabulary and grammar of Classical Chinese.
Although Chinese honorifics have simplified to a large degree, contemporary Chinese still retains a sizable set of honorifics. Many of the classical constructs are also occasionally employed by contemporary speakers to convey formality, humility, politeness or respect. Usage of classical Chinese honorifics is also found frequently in contemporary Chinese literature and television or cinematic productions that are set in the historical periods. Honorific language in Chinese is achieved by using honorific or beautifying alternatives, prefixing or suffixing a word with a polite complement, or by dropping casual-sounding words. In general, language referring to oneself exhibits self-deprecating humbleness - called '', while language referring to others shows approval and respect - called . Other types of honorific language include , , and that are often used to convey a sense of respect, courtesy, or elegance.
Because of its official status as the common language of China, Mandarin Chinese is used herein synonymously with the term "contemporary Chinese". Variations in usage and grammar exist in the numerous modern Chinese dialects.
Introduction
The term 知書達禮 has been used to praise and characterize those of high academic and moral accomplishments and those of proper manner and conduct. Using the proper honorific or humble forms of address and other parts of speech toward oneself and toward others is an important element or requirement in the proper observation of 禮儀. Honorific parts of speech include pronoun substitutes, modified nouns, proper nouns, and pronouns, modified verbs, honorific adjectives, honorific 成語, and honorific alternatives for other neutral or deprecating words.In ancient China, myriad humble and respectful forms of address, in lieu of personal pronouns and names, were used for various social relationships and situations. The choice of a pronoun substitute was often in adherence to the concepts of , , and or for short.
Social hierarchy and class
In the Confucian philosophical classic of or "Yizhuan - Xici"—a latter day commentary on the book of or "I Ching", it is stated "天尊地卑，乾坤定矣。卑高以陳，貴賤位矣。" -- it was believed in ancient China that both the order of nature, i.e., 天尊地卑, and from it the derived order of man, were long predetermined and dictated by the heavens, e.g., 君尊臣卑, 男尊女卑, 夫尊婦卑, and 父尊子卑 etc. Every king and their subject, every man and woman, every husband and wife, and every father and son, should naturally follow this predetermined order and practice proper and conduct. As a large part of, proper speech was of great importance.Therefore in speech, among other forms of and social behaviors, the "subordinate" or "inferior" would employ self-deprecating and humble language towards self and respectful language towards the "superior" as a recognition of their relative places in the "natural" hierarchy. On the other hand, the "superiors" would often also use humble language as a display of humility and virtue. Unsurprisingly, the characters 尊~ and 卑~ also became honorific and humble prefixes, respectively. For example, the humble substitute would be used, among other deprecating substitutes, in place of the pronoun "I", and the honorific substitute would replace the pronoun "you".
Related to is the concept of. Those with power, money and status were 貴, and those without were 賤. These two characters also became the honorific and humble prefixes 貴~ and 賤~. Examples: 貴國, 貴庚, 貴姓, 貴公司, and 賤姓, 賤民, 賤妾, 賤内, etc. 貴~ remains a commonly used honorific prefix to this day.
Seniority
Likewise, those of a junior would show respect and deference to their , or , and . is not necessarily based on age, for example, a younger person who entered a school or profession before an older person would be considered the. A person who is much younger than his/her nephew in a large extended family would still be a to the nephew. If two people are of the same , then either experience or age would determine the hierarchy depending on the situation.Contemporary Chinese mostly abandoned the and distinctions in its honorific practice, but retains elements of the distinctions. For example, the suffixes ~ and ~ are commonly used by junior people when addressing their seniors. Those of the next higher acquire the suffixes ~姨，~叔 etc. Those even higher in receive the suffixes ~婆，~公，~伯 etc. When addressing a junior, the suffixes ~妹, ~弟 are used. While these suffixes derived from kinship names, they are commonly used between unrelated people. Example: when addressing a group leader at work whose name is ，the less experienced person in the group might call her 芳姐 Fāng-jiě''. Because these suffixes have an age connotation, their use and application are not always appropriate. Variations were created such as ~小哥哥 ， ~小姐姐 to soften age connotations. A wrong suffix can also be used intentionally to please or belittle another person. For example, some older women may prefer a ～姨 rather than ～婆 suffix, and a middle age woman may prefer to still be called ~姐 rather than ~姨. When these suffixes are used without a preceding name, or when a name is not complemented by one of these suffixes, the intimacy prefix ~ is often added. is a functional particle without an actual meaning by itself, but when combined with a name or with one of the related suffixes, adds a sense of intimacy with the addressed. can be used together with a suffix, e.g., 阿芳姐 ，阿强哥. Other related honorific modifiers include 老~，大~，小~，~總，~董, see noun complements section below for more details.
Honorific verbs
Like nouns and proper nouns, some Chinese verbs can also be complemented with an honorific modifier. For example, the verbs , ， , ， can be complemented by the honorific prefix ~ to form the more polite versions 奉告, 奉還, 奉陪, 奉勸, and 奉送. Another example is the honorific prefix ~, e.g., 恭賀, 恭候, 恭請 ，恭迎. The addition of the honorific prefix turns these verbs into a politer version. Unlike adverbs, the prefixes are often verbs themselves, and the compounded honorific verb functions as a single language unit. Other common prefixes for verbs and verb examples are summarized in the verb complements section below.Grammar
In practice, many of the honorific compound words are used as canned polite word alternatives, rather than being grammatically composed as people speak. There is not a systemic rule in Chinese grammar to alter words for the purpose of increasing speech politeness, though the same effect can often be achieved. However, in letters and official documents, a complex system of honorifics and rule sets exists.Examples of honorific speech
Example 1:The sentence above is a perfectly acceptable question when addressing others of equal or lower status. To increase politeness, e.g., if the addressee is of higher status or the person asking the question wants to show more respect, several changes may be employed:
- The honorific prefix 請 + verb 問 may be added
- The regular second-person pronoun 你 may be replaced by the honorific second-person pronoun 您
- The honorific prefix 貴 may be added before 姓 ; 姓 is used as a verb.
- If the honorific prefix 貴 is added, the contemporary interrogative pronoun 甚麽 is usually dropped.
is more polite and commonly used among people in formal situations.
Example 2:
The above can be changed to a more polite question by employing the honorific prefix 敢 + verb 問 , and honorific prefix 芳 + noun 齡.
The second-person pronoun 你 is substituted entirely by the honorific title 小姐 in this case. This latter way of questioning is more of classical usage, but is still occasionally used in contemporary Chinese. It is also an example of elegant speech.
Categorization
In general, there are several types of honorifics used in the Chinese language as described below.Respectful language
- Respectful Language employs modified words or substitutes called that convey a sense of respect for the addressee. For example:- : Lit. the beautiful and beloved -- Your daughter; the honorific prefix 令~ replaces the pronoun "your".
- : Lit. the beautiful one who is worth a thousand gold -- Your daughter.
- : Lit. the highly valued precious banner—Your business; the honorific prefix 貴~ replaces the pronoun "your", and the prefix 寳~ modifies 號 to form an honorific substitute for someone's business.
Humble language
Indirect language
- Indirect Language employs words called that are used to hide or beautify an otherwise unfortunate event or action. For example:- : Lit. return to heaven -- to have died
- : Lit. to hang colorful decorations—to have been shot
- : Lit. destined/mortal enemies—often used to mean lovers
Courteous language
- : Lit. dare not climb up high to you -- I dare not compare myself to you
- : Lit. long admired big name -- I've known and admired you for a long time; used when meeting someone you've heard of.
- : Lit. lift up high honorable hand -- Please be magnanimous and don't hurt me
Elegant language
- : Lit. red face / know self—beautiful beloved girlfriend. Compared to the casual alternative: 情人 or 女朋友
- : Lit please use tea—please have some tea. Compared to the casual alternative: 喝茶吧
- : Lit. please take your time to use—please enjoy . Compared to the casual alternative: 你们慢慢吃
- : Lit. please on my behalf beautify some of your language—please say something nice about me/my situation in front of... Compared to the casual alternative: 幫我說幾句好話啊
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Honorific and humble forms of address
First-person
When referring to oneself in ancient China, people avoided first-person pronouns. Instead, a third-person descriptor was used, which varied according to the situation. Referring to oneself in the third-person could be used arrogantly as well, to assert one's superiority or dominance over one's audience. This was most common in the imperial middle management the imperial consorts, the military, and the imperial bureaucracy, with the emperor instead often describing himself in sorrowful terms out of respect for his deceased father.For the same reasons, and to a much lesser degree, the first-person pronouns are sometimes avoided also in contemporary usage. Often, the generic self-referencing prefix 本~，该~， or a humble / self-deprecating prefix such as 敝~ is used with a third-person descriptor, for example: 本人是来自甲公司的，敝公司想跟您做个访问。-- Literally, "This person is from company A, this unkempt company would like to do an interview with you." translated to "I am from company A, we would like to do an interview with you."
Provided below are some first-person honorific substitutes and usages. Their relevancy and gender association are also indicated. Plurals in classical Chinese are formed by the suffixes ~等 or ~众人 etc., and in contemporary Chinese by ~们. A "classical usage" designation does not preclude usage in contemporary speech or writing, as contemporary Chinese often incorporates classical elements, though it is much less likely to be seen or used in the contemporary context.
Commoners and the humble
The following directly replace the pronoun "I" in usage by commoners or people of low social status. Example: rather than 吾以為此方不可 - "I think this idea will not work" one would say 愚以為此方不可 - "This unintelligent one thinks this idea will not work."| Traditional Chinese | Old Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Meaning in Usage | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| *dzˤəʔgˤraʔ | 在下 | zàixià | This one who is beneath you | I, me | Male | Contemporary and Classical | Occasionally used in contemporary Chinese. Also 下走 in classical. | |
| 本人 | *pˤənʔniŋ | 本人 | běnrén | This person | I, me | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | This is not necessarily a humble substitute, but is sometimes preferred over the pronoun "I" for formality. |
| 人家 | niŋkˤra | 人家 | rénjiā | This other person/people | I, me | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | Usually used by a child, or a grown woman who tries to act childish or submissive. Often used as a form of sajiao. |
| 老粗 | 老粗 | lǎocū | This uneducated chap | I, me | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | 老~ is a recurring prefix. Also “大老粗”，“大老粗兒”，“老粗兒” | |
| 愚 | yú | This unintelligent one | I, me | Male | Classical | 愚~ is also a humble prefix: 愚兄, 愚见 Also 蒙. | ||
| 人 | *prəʔniŋ | 鄙人 | bǐrén | This lowly/unlearned one | I, me | Male | Classical | 鄙~ is also a humble prefix: 鄙意, 鄙见 |
| 人 | *bet-sniŋ | 敝人 | bìrén | This unkempt/ragged one | I, me | Male | Classical | 敝~ is also a humble prefix: 敝校, 敝公司, 敝处 |
| 下 | *pegˤraʔ | 卑下 | bēixià | This inferior one | I, me | Male | Classical | |
| *tsʰˤet | 窃 | qiè | This humble one | I, me | Male | Classical | Employed by one in lower position when providing a suggestion or opinion: 窃以为 Also “窃闻”, “窃思” | |
| *bˤok | 仆 | pú | This servant | I, me | Male | Classical | Literally, "" | |
| *beʔ | 婢 | bì | This servant | I, me | Female | Classical | ||
| This consort | I, me | Female | Classical | |||||
| *dzen-stsʰap | 贱妾 | jiànqiè | This worthless consort | I, me | Female | Classical | ||
| *sewʔniŋ | 小人 | xiǎorén | This little man | I, me | Male | Classical | 小~ is a recurring humble prefix. | |
| *sewʔnraʔ | 小女 | xiǎonǚ | This little woman | I, me | Female | Classical | 小~ is a recurring humble prefix. | |
| *tsʰˤuʔmiŋ | 草民 | cǎomín | This worthless commoner | I, me | Male | Classical | ||
| *miŋnraʔ | 民女 | mínnǚ | This common woman | I, me | Female | Classical | ||
| *nˤadzˤə | 奴才 | núcai | This slave | I, me | Male | Classical | Also used by servants and even low-level officials who are not literally slaves, especially in later dynasties. | |
| *nˤabeʔ | 奴婢 | núbì | This slave | I, me | Female | Classical | Also used by servants who are not literally slaves, especially in later dynasties. 奴 and 婢 were sometimes used alone for the same meaning. | |
| *nˤakˤra | 奴家 | nújiā | This slave of yours | I, me | Female | Classical | Can be used with strangers by a woman to show humbleness. |
Royalty
The following directly replace the first person pronoun "I" in usage by the royalty. For kings and emperors, gender is assumed to be male for simplicity, because the overwhelming majority of Chinese kings and emperors were men, with only a few exceptions. Sometimes the generic self-referencing prefix 本~ was used with the speaker's title. For example, 本贵人。| Traditional Chinese | Old Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Meaning in Usage | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| / | *kʷˤa | 孤/ | gū | This orphaned one | I, me | Male | Classical | Employed by the king out of respect for his father, who usually had predeceased him |
| *kʷˤraʔ | 寡 | guǎ | This lonesome one | I, me | Male | Classical | As above | |
| *pəqˤok | 不谷 | bùgǔ | This grainless one | I, me | Male | Classical | Employed by the emperor out of modesty regarding his administration, particularly compared to his father's rule | |
| 予一人 | yǘyìrén | This solitary one | I, me | Male | Classical | Employed exclusively by the Pre-Qin kings of China. | ||
| *lrəmʔ | 朕 | zhèn | I | I, me | Male | Classical | The original generic first-person pronoun, arrogated to the emperors during the reign of Shi Huangdi. Comparable to the royal we. | |
| 本王 | 本王 | běnwáng | This king / This Nobleman | I, me | Male | Classical | Originally by pre-imperial kings. Later by royalty and nobleman with the title: 王爷. 本~ is a recurring prefix. | |
| *ʔˤəjkˤra | 哀家 | āijiā | This sad house | I, me | Female | Classical | Employed by the emperor's mother out of respect for her deceased husband | |
| 本宫 | běngōng | This one of the palace | I, me | Female | Classical | Employed by an empress or a high-ranking consort when speaking to a person or an audience of lower rank or status 本~ is a recurring prefix. | ||
| *gintsʰap | 臣妾 | chénqiè | This subject and consort | I, me | Female | Classical | Employed by the empress and consorts before the emperor. 妾身 is also used. | |
| *ŋegin | 儿臣 | ěrchén | This child and subject | I, me | Neutral | Classical | Employed by the emperor before the empress dowager and by the imperial family before their parents or the emperor's other consorts |
Government and military
The following directly replace the first person pronoun "I" in usage by government and military officials.| Traditional Chinese | Old Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Meaning in Usage | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| *gin | 臣 | chén | This subject | I, me | Neutral | Classical | Employed by officials when addressing the emperor, based on a word that originally meant "slave" during the Zhou dynasty. | |
| *gˤraʔkʷˤan | 下官 | xiàguān | This lowly official | I, me | Neutral | Classical | Employed by officials when addressing other bureaucrats of higher rank | |
| *mˤatkʷˤan | 末官 | mòguān | This lesser official | I, me | Neutral | Classical | As above. | |
| *sewʔrəʔ‑s | 小吏 | xiǎolì | This little clerk | I, me | Neutral | Classical | As above. 小~ is a recurring humble prefix. | |
| *petək | 卑职 | bēizhí | This inferior office | I, me | Neutral | Classical | Employed by officials when addressing their patrons or other bureaucrats of equal rank | |
| 属下 | shǔxià | This subordinate of yours | I, me | Neutral | Classical | Used by subordinates in front of their superior officer or leader | ||
| *mˤattsaŋ‑s | 末将 | mòjiàng | This lesser commander | I, me | Neutral | Classical | Employed by military officers when addressing other officers of higher rank | |
| 本府 | běnfǔ | This office | I, me | Neutral | Classical | Employed by officials when addressing other bureaucrats of lower rank. Commonly found in fiction. 本~ is a recurring prefix. | ||
| *pˤənʔkʷˤan | 本官 | běnguān | This Official | I, me | Neutral | Classical | Employed by officials when addressing those of lower status 本~ is a recurring prefix. | |
| *pˤənʔs‑rut‑s | 本帅 | běnshuài | This Marshal | I, me | Neutral | Classical | Employed by general officers when addressing their commanders 本~ is a recurring prefix. | |
| *pˤənʔtsaŋ‑skʷər | 本将军 | běnjiāngjun | This General | I, me | Neutral | Classical | Employed by general officers when addressing their commanders 本~ is a recurring prefix. |
Elderly
The following directly replace the first person pronoun "I" in usage by the elderly.| Traditional Chinese | Old Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Meaning in Usage | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| *rˤuʔqʰuʔ | 老朽 | lǎoxiǔ | This old and senile one | I, me | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | 老~ is a recurring prefix. | |
| *rˤuʔtot | 老拙 | lǎozhuó | This old and clumsy one | I, me | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | 老~ is a recurring prefix. | |
| *rˤuʔn̥ˤar-s | 老汉 | lǎohàn | This old man | I, me | Male | Contemporary and Classical | 老~ is a recurring prefix. | |
| *rˤuʔpa | 老夫 | lǎofū | This old man | I, me | Male | Classical | 老~ is a recurring prefix. | |
| *rˤuʔn̥iŋ | 老身 | lǎoshēn | This old body | I, me | Female | Classical | 老~ is a recurring prefix. |
Academia and religion
The following directly replace the first person pronoun "I" in usage by scholars and monks.| Traditional Chinese | Old Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Meaning in Usage | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| *sewʔsreŋ | 小生 | xiǎoshēng | This later-born one | I, me | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | Literally "smaller-born" but Chinese uses the idea of "big" and "small" in reference to age e.g., 你多大? is a question about one's age and not about height or weight. Occasionally used in contemporary Chinese. 小~ is a recurring humble prefix. | |
| 晚辈 | wǎnbèi | This later-born one | I, me | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | Literally " later generation" 晚~ is a recurring humble prefix. | ||
| *pəsew‑s | 不肖 | búxiào | This unequal one | I, me | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | Literally "unlike", but implying the speaker is unequal to the capability and talent of his audience. Often used as a prefix: 不肖子，不肖女，不肖徒 | |
| *morʔsreŋ | 晚生 | wǎnshēng | This later-born one | I, me | Neutral | Classical | 晚~ is a recurring humble prefix. Also 侍生. | |
| *morʔm‑kˤruk | 晚学 | wǎnxué | This later-taught one | I, me | Neutral | Classical | 晚~ is a recurring humble prefix. 后学 and 后进 were also used. | |
| *pədzˤə | 不才 | bùcái | This inept one | I, me | Neutral | Classical | 不~ is a recurring humble prefix, usually used to negate a desired quality to self-deprecate. | |
| 不佞 | búnìng | This incapable one | I, me | Neutral | Classical | 不~ is a recurring humble prefix, usually used to negate a desired quality to self-deprecate. | ||
| 老衲 | lǎonà | This old and patched one | I, me | Male | Classical | Employed by monks, in reference to their tattered robes. Used by senior/older monks. | ||
| 贫僧 | pínsēng | This penniless monk | I, me | Male | Classical | 贫~ is a recurring humble prefix. | ||
| 贫尼 | pínní | This penniless nun | I, me | Female | Classical | 贫~ is a recurring humble prefix. | ||
| *brənkə.lˤuʔ | 贫道 | píndào | This penniless priest/priestess | I, me | Neutral | Classical | Employed by Taoist adepts 贫~ is a recurring humble prefix. |
Pejorative slang
In some parts of China, the following are used in place of "I" to indicate contempt for the listener, to assert the superiority of oneself, or when teasing:- 老子 : I, your dad
- 爺·爷 : I, your lord. Used in parts of Northern China
- 恁父 : I, your dad.
First-person possessive
Similarly, the possessive case "my" and "our" are avoided by virtue of being associated to the humble self. This is often achieved by a humble or self-deprecating prefix, while in other cases by an honorific substitute as described below.Referring to own family
Humble substitutes are used by people when referring to their own family or family members, and replace terms such as my/our family, my wife, my husband, my/our father, my/our mother, my/our son, my/our daughter etc.| Traditional Chinese | Old Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Meaning in Usage | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| ~ | *kˤra | 家~ | jiā | Home | My/Our | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | A prefix used when referring to living elder family members: my father, my elder brother, &c. |
| ~ | *r̥ak-s | 舍~ | shě | House / Residence | My/Our | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | Literally "my lodging-house's", a prefix used when referring to younger family members: my younger brother, my younger sister, my family or relative &c. |
| ~ | 愚~ | yú | Unintelligent | My/Our | Neutral | Classical | A prefix used when referring to oneself and another family member: this unintelligent couple, this unintelligent father and son, these unintelligent brothers, this unintelligent brother | |
| ~ / 亡~ | *sˤər | 先~ / 亡~ | xiān / wáng | Deceased... | My/Our | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | Literally "first", a prefix used when referring to deceased elder family members: my late father, my late elder brother. Others include 先考, 先慈, 先妣, 先贤. The 亡~ prefix is used in a similar manner. |
| ~ | *nˤəp | 内~ | nèi | Inside | My | Female | Classical | A prefix used when referring to one's wife |
| *ə.gˤanr̥ak-s | 寒舍 | hánshè | Humble Insignificant Residence | My/Our house | Contemporary and Classical | Literally "cold lodging-house"; could be used as a metonym for the family itself Also 舍間、舍下 | ||
| *totkreŋ | 拙荆 | zhuōjīng | Clumsy thorn | My wife | Female | Classical | Employed by men to refer to their wives Also 山荊、荊屋、山妻. | |
| *dzen-snˤəp | 贱内 | jiànnèi | Worthless one inside | My wife | Female | Classical | Employed by men to refer to their wives | |
| 賤息 | 贱息 | jiànxí | Worthless son | My son | Male | Classical | Also 息男 | |
| *totpa | 拙夫 | zhuōfū | Clumsy man | My husband | Male | Classical | Employed by wives to refer to their husbands | |
| *kʷʰˤenʔtsəʔ | 犬子 | quǎnzǐ | Dog son/child | My son | Male | Classical | Employed by parents to refer to their sons | |
| *sewʔŋe | 小儿 | xiǎo'ér | Young child/son | My son | Neutral | Classical | Employed by parents to refer to their sons | |
| *sewʔnraʔ | 小女 | xiǎonǚ | Young girl/daughter | My daughter | Female | Classical | Employed by parents to refer to their daughters Also 息女 |
Referring to own affiliations
The generic self-referencing prefix 本~ or humble prefix 敝~ is prepended to the speaker's affiliated organization to form an honorific. For example, 敝校, 敝公司, and 本單位 are used instead of a plural pronoun.Ceremonial
The following are commonly found in spiritual tablets and gravestones for family members.| Traditional Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Meaning | Notes |
| 顯考 | 显考 | xiǎnkǎo | honorable late father | |
| 顯妣 | 显妣 | xiǎnbǐ | honorable late mother | |
| 祖考 | 祖考 | zǔkǎo | Ancestral father | |
| 祖妣 | 祖妣 | zǔbǐ | Ancestral mother |
Second-person and third-person
The same concept of hierarchical speech and etiquette affects terms of address towards others. Often, the same honorific substitutes can be used for both second-person and third-person.In contemporary Chinese, the second-person singular pronoun 你 can be substituted with its polite form 您 to express politeness. In some cases, the addressee's profession or title can be used. In others, specific honorific substitutes are used, e.g., 閣下 is used instead of the pronoun "you" to show respect. Historically, many other honorific usages existed.
In contemporary usage, the pronouns 你/您，你們，他/她，and 他/她們 are sometimes appended redundantly to the honorific substitute. For example, 请閣下您慢走 - 您 is optionally inserted after 閣下. This is likely out of a contemporary habit to use actual pronouns in speech.
Provided below are some of the better known second-person or third-person honorific substitutes and usages.
Royalty
The following were honorifics used when people addressed the Royalty in ancient China. Often, imperial titles were also used as pronoun substitutes. For example, the emperor may address the empress by her title 皇后. A royal servant may address a princess as 公主. Not all royal titles are listed.| Traditional Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Meaning in Usage | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| 陛下 | 陛下 | bìxià | Beneath the ceremonial ramp | Your/His Majesty | Male | Classical | The implied context is "Your Majesty, beneath whose ceremonial ramp ". It was used by officials when they addressed the emperor directly. |
| 聖上 | 圣上 | shèngshàng | The Holy and Exalted One | Your/His Majesty | Male | Classical | May be used when addressing the emperor directly or when referring to the emperor in the third person. Also 君上， 皇上，王上，大王，九重天，萬乘， 聖主, 王, 上, 君 可汗、單于 used for some minority rulers of China. |
| 聖駕 | 圣驾 | shèngjià | Holy procession | His Majesty | Male | Classical | Used when referring to the emperor in the third person, especially when the emperor was on the move. |
| 天子 | 天子 | tiānzǐ | The Son of Heaven | His Majesty | Male | Classical | One of the titles of the emperor. |
| 萬歲 | 万岁 | wànsuì | Of Ten Thousand Years. | Your/His Majesty | Male | Classical | "Ten thousand" is often used for an unspecified large number, analogous to "myriad" in English. "Years" here refers specifically to years of age. It may be roughly translated as "Long live the Emperor!". |
| 萬歲爺 | 万岁爷 | wànsuìyé | Lord of Ten Thousand Years | Your/His Majesty | Male | Classical | An informal way of addressing the emperor. Usually used by the emperor's personal attendants. |
| 皇帝 | 皇帝 | huángdì | Emperor | You | Male | Classical | Used by the emperor's parents or grandparents. |
| 父皇 / 父王 / 父君 / 父帝 | 父皇 / 父王 / 父君 / 父帝 | fùhuáng / fùwáng / fùjūn / fùdì | Imperial Father / Royal Father | Your Majesty / My Imperial or Royal Father | Male | Classical | Used by descendants of the emperor/king in pre-Qing dynasties. In the Qing Dynasty, the Manchurian variant 皇阿玛 is used. |
| 母后 | 母后 | mǔhòu | Queen Mother | Your Royal Highness / My Imperial or Royal Mother | Female | Classical | Used by descendants of the empress/queen pre-Qing dynasties. In the Qing Dynasty, the Manchurian variant 皇额娘 is used. Similar honorifics include 母妃, 母嫔 |
| 太后 | 太后 | tàihòu | Empress Dowager | Your Royal Highness / My Imperial or Royal Grandmother | Female | Classical | Also 皇太后，皇祖母 by her royal descendants. |
| 娘娘 | 娘娘 | niángniang | Lady | Your/Her Royal Highness，My Lady | Female | Classical | Can be used alone or as a suffix ~娘娘 after an imperial title, for example: 皇后娘娘 |
| 殿下 | 殿下 | diànxià | Beneath your palace | Your Royal Highness | Neutral | Classical | Used when addressing members of the imperial family, such as princes and princesses. Can be used as a suffix ~殿下, for example: 公主殿下， 王子殿下 |
| 千歲 | 千岁 | qiānsùi | Of One Thousand Years | Your Royal Highness | Neutral | Classical | Literally "one thousand years", used to address Empresses, Dowagers, Crown Princes and other high-ranking imperials. The Taiping Rebellion also had a particular rank system based on how many "thousand years" a lord is entitled to. |
| 先帝 | 先帝 | xiāndì | Late emperor | The late emperor | Male | Classical | Referring to the deceased former emperor. |
Government and military
The following were used when addressing government and military officials. Often, their title can be used alone or as a suffix after their family name to form an honorific.| Traditional Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Meaning in Usage | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| 麾下 | 麾下 | huīxià | Beneath your flag | You, Sir | Neutral | Classical | Used when addressing generals and military officers. 节下 was also used. |
| 卿 | 卿 | qīng | Official | You, My subject | Neutral | Classical | Used by the emperor and members of the imperial family when they address officials. Examples: 愛卿 etc. |
| 大人 | 大人 | dàren | Significant Person | You, Sir | Neutral | Classical | A honorific used for an official or a person in authority. Can be used as an honorific suffix ~大人 after a title or a name. Examples: 知府大人，张大人 |
Acquaintances and friends
The following honorifics are used to address acquaintances or friends.| Traditional Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Meaning in Usage | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| 閣下 | 阁下 | géxià | Beneath your pavilion | Your Excellency | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | Used when addressing important people, or to show respect to the person. Equivalent to Excellency. Can be used as a suffix ~阁下 after a title or a name. |
| 前輩 | 前辈 | qiánbèi | Of an older generation. | You | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | Used when addressing an elder or someone in the same profession who is more senior than the speaker. Can be used as a suffix ~前辈 after a title or a name. |
| 台端 | 台端 | táiduān | You | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | "台" refers to the Three Ducal Ministers, the three highest-ranked officials in the Zhou Dynasty. "端" is the honorific for assisting and advisory officials in the Six Dynasties. It is usually used in formal writing when addressing a person of similar social status. | |
| 仁兄 | 仁兄 | rénxiōng | Kind elder friend | You | Male | Contemporary and Classical | Used when addressing an older male friend. |
| 尊駕 | 尊驾 | zūnjià | The respected procession | You | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | Used when referring to a guest or a person of higher social status. |
| 同志 | 同志 | tóngzhì | Same ambition/goal | Comrade | Neutral | Contemporary | Literally means "you, who share the same ambition with me". Used by members of the Nationalist and Communist parties to address fellow members of the same conviction, thus it can translate to "comrade". It is also used by some older citizens in China to address strangers. However, now among the younger and more urban Chinese, "同志" has definite implications of homosexuality. |
| 節下 | 节下 | jiéxià | Beneath your ceremonial banner | Your Excellency | Neutral | Classical | Used when addressing ambassadors from foreign lands. |
| 賢家 | 贤家 | xiánjiā | The virtuous house | You | Neutral | Classical | 贤~ prefix |
| 賢郎 | 贤郎 | xiánláng | Virtuous young man | You | Male | Classical | Referring to one's son. 贤~ prefix |
| 賢弟 | 贤弟 | xiándì | Virtuous younger brother | You | Male | Classical | Could be either addressing one's own younger brother or referring to the addressee's younger brother. 贤~ prefix |
| 仁公 | 仁公 | réngōng | Kind lord | You | Male | Classical | Used when addressing a person more senior than the speaker. |
Family members
The following are used between family members. Also see Familial Honorifics section below.| Traditional Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Meaning in Usage | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| 愛~ | 爱~ | ài | Beloved | Beloved | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | A prefix to show affection for lovers. Examples: 愛妻 ; 愛姬 ; 愛妾 ; 愛郎 etc. 愛人 is a contemporary usage as another name for wife. It's not used as 2nd person pronoun. |
| 夫人 | 夫人 | fūrén | Wife / Lady | You | Male | Contemporary and Classical | Means "you" when talking directly to wife. When introducing her to others it means "my wife". Contemporary in 3rd person only. |
| ~ | 家~ | jiā | Home~ | You, my~ | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | A prefix used when addressing elder family members in some contemporary dialects: 家姐，家嫂 Sometimes 长~ is used: 长兄，长姐 |
| 賢妻 | 贤妻 | xiánqī | Virtuous wife | You | Female | Classical | 贤~ prefix |
| 賢弟 | 贤弟 | xiándì | Virtuous younger brother | You | Male | Classical | "Xiandi" is another less commonly used form. 贤~ prefix. |
| 賢侄 | 贤侄 | xiánzhì | Virtuous nephew | You | Male | Classical | 贤~ prefix |
| 夫君 | 夫君 | fūjūn | Husband | You | Male | Classical | |
| 郎君 | 郎君 | lángjūn | Husband | You | Male | Classical | |
| 官人 | 官人 | guānrén | Husband / Man | You | Male | Classical | |
| 相公 | 相公 | xiànggōng | Husband | You | Male | Classical | It now refers to a male prostitute in some circles. |
| 仁兄 | 仁兄 | rénxiōng | Kind elder brother | You | Male | Classical | Contemporary use not as second person pronoun, but more as a respectful honorific for an older friend. Also 兄长 |
Second- and third-person possessive
Similarly, the possessive case "your" is avoided. This is often achieved by the honorific prefixes 令~, 尊~, 贤~, 贵~ as described below.Referring to addressee's family
The following honorifics are used to show respect when referencing the addressee's family members.| Traditional Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Meaning in Usage | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| 令尊 | 令尊 | lìngzūn | The beautiful and respected one | Your father | Male | Contemporary and Classical | "Lingzunweng" is sometimes used. Also 令严. |
| 令堂 | 令堂 | lìngtáng | The beautiful and dignified hall. | Your mother | Female | Contemporary and Classical | "Lingshoutang" is sometimes used. Also 令慈. |
| 令閫 | 令阃 | lìngkǔn | The beautiful door to the woman's room | Your wife | Female | Contemporary and Classical | |
| 令兄 | 令兄 | lìngxiōng | The beautiful door to the woman's room | Your elder brother | Male | Contemporary and Classical | |
| 令郎 | 令郎 | lìngláng | The beautiful young man | Your son | Male | Contemporary and Classical | "Linggongzi" is sometimes used. |
| 令愛 | 令爱 | lìng'ài | The beautiful and beloved one | Your daughter | Female | Contemporary and Classical | Another form of "ling'ai" is sometimes used. |
| 令千金 | 令千金 | lìngqiānjīn | The beautiful one who is worth a thousand gold | Your daughter | Female | Contemporary and Classical | |
| 高堂 | 高堂 | gāotáng | The highly respected hall. | Your parents | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | |
| 尊上 | 尊上 | zūnshàng | The respected one above | Your parents | Male | Classical | |
| 尊公 | 尊公 | zūngōng | The respected lord | Your father | Male | Classical | "Zunjun" and "zunfu" are sometimes used. |
| 尊堂 | 尊堂 | zūntáng | The respected and dignified one | Your mother | Female | Classical | |
| 尊親 | 尊亲 | zūnqīn | The respected and loved ones | Your parents | Neutral | Classical | |
| 尊夫人 | 尊夫人 | zūnfūrén | The respected wife | Your wife | Female | Contemporary and Classical | |
| 賢喬梓 | 贤乔梓 | xiánqiáozǐ | The virtuous father and son | You | Male | Classical | |
| 賢伉儷 | 贤伉俪 | xiánkànglì | The virtuous husband and wife | You | Neutral | Classical | |
| 賢昆仲 | 贤昆仲 | xiánkūnzhòng | The virtuous brothers | You | Male | Classical | |
| 賢昆玉 | 贤昆玉 | xiánkūnyù | The virtuous Mt. Kunlun jade | You | Male | Classical | |
| 冰翁 | 冰翁 | bīngwēng | Ice old man | Wife's father | Male | Classical | Sometimes 泰山 is used. |
| 貴子弟 | 贵子弟 | guìzǐdì | Honorable sons | Your son | Male | Contemporary and Classical | Usually when addressing strangers or less known people |
| 貴子女 | 贵子女 | guìzǐnǚ | Honorable children | Your children | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | Usually when addressing strangers or less known people |
| 貴家長 | 贵家长 | guìjiāzhǎng | Honorable parents | Your parent | Neutral | Contemporary | Usually when addressing strangers or less known people |
| 貴夫人 | 贵夫人 | guìfūrén | Honorable wife | Your wife | Female | Contemporary and Classical | Usually when addressing strangers or less known people |
| 貴丈夫 | 贵丈夫 | guìzhàngfū | Honorable husband | Your husband | Male | Contemporary and Classical | Usually when addressing strangers or less known people |
Social relationships
The honorific prefixes 贵~ and 宝~ are often used.| Traditional Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Meaning in Usage | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| 貴~ | 贵~ | guì | Honorable | ~ | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | A prefix for persons and others things affiliated to the addressee. It is used for the purposes of courtesy and formality. Other examples: 貴體, 貴恙, 貴幹 |
| 貴公司 | 贵公司 | guìgōngsī | Honorable company | Your company | Contemporary | ||
| 貴國 | 贵国 | guìguó | Honorable country | Your country | Contemporary and Classical | ||
| 貴姓 | 贵姓 | guìxìng | Honorable surname | Your surname / family name | Contemporary | Used when asking for the addressee's surname or family name. | |
| 貴庚 | 贵庚 | guìgēng | Honorable age | Your age | Contemporary and Classical | Used when asking for the addressee's age. | |
| 寶~ | 宝~ | bǎo | Valuable | ~ | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | A prefix that means "valuable" or "precious". |
| 貴寶號 | 贵宝号 | guìbǎohào | Valuable Banner | Your valuable business | Contemporary and Classical | ||
| 貴府 | 贵府 | guìfǔ | Noble residence | Your home | Classical | ||
| 府上 | 府上 | fǔshàng | Stately residence | Your home | Classical | ||
| 先賢 | 先贤 | xiānxián | The late virtuous | The late virtuous | Neutral | Classical | Referring to a deceased person who was highly regarded. |
Honorific titles
Often, the addressee's profession or title is used as an honorific form of address. Below are some common titles.| Traditional Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Meaning | Gender | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| 先生 | 先生 | xiānshēng | Mr. | Male | Contemporary and Classical | |
| 小姐 / 姑娘 | 小姐 / 姑娘 | xiǎojiě / gūniang | Ms. | Female | Contemporary and Classical | The use of standalone "xiaojie" is taboo in some parts of China as it may refer to prostitutes. In Suzhou, "xiaojie" is substituted with "yatou", which in turn may be considered offensive in other parts of China because "yatou" also means "dumb girl". |
| 女士 | 女士 | nǚshì | Madam | Female | Contemporary | |
| 夫人 | 夫人 | fūrén | Mrs. | Female | Contemporary and Classical | Traditionally, the honorific of the consort of a Pre-Qin state ruler. During the imperial era, it was appropriated for vassals. In modern use, it is appropriate for most females. When a surname is used, the husband's surname precedes this honorific. |
| 孺人 | 孺人 | rúrén | Madam | Female | Classical | An old title for wives of some government officials or important people. |
| 公子 | 公子 | gōngzǐ | Mr. | Male | Classical | Old title for young males. |
| 博士 | 博士 | bóshì | Dr. | Neutral | Contemporary | Originally a court scholar. Refers to a Doctor of Philosophy holder. |
| 醫生 | 医生 | yīshēng | Dr. | Neutral | Contemporary | Refers to a medical doctor. "Daifu" "Yishi" are sometimes used, usually in mainland China and in Taiwan respectively. |
| 經理 | 经理 | jīnglǐ | Manager | Neutral | Contemporary | |
| 老師 | 老师 | lǎoshī | Teacher | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | "Laoshi" may sometimes be used as a polite reference to a more highly educated person, who may not necessarily be a teacher. |
| 師父 | 师父 | shīfù | Master | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | See Sifu for further information. |
| 師傅 | 师傅 | shīfù | Master | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | See Sifu for further information. |
| 修士 | 修士 | xiūshì | Monk | Male | Contemporary | |
| 神父 | 神父 | shénfù | Priest ; Father | Male | Contemporary | |
| 教宗 | 教宗 | jiàozōng | The Pope | Male | Contemporary | |
| 執士 | 执士 | zhíshì | Deacon | Male | Contemporary | |
| 牧師 | 牧师 | mùshī | Pastor | Neutral | Contemporary | |
| 主教 | 主教 | zhǔjiào | Bishop | Neutral | Contemporary | |
| 法師 | 法师 | fǎshī | Monk / Nun | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | "Heshang" is also used, either to denote seniority or hierarchy in the monastery. |
| 居士 | 居士 | jūshì | Layman | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | |
| 道長 | 道长 | dàozhǎng | Priest / Priestess | Neutral | Contemporary and Classical | |
| 爵士 | 爵士 | juéshì | Sir | Male | Contemporary | |
| 仙姑 | 仙姑 | xiāngū | Priestess | Female | Classical | "Daogu" is also used sometimes. |
| 大夫 | 大夫 | dàifu | Dr. | Neutral | Classical |
Honorific modifiers
Noun and proper noun complements
Below is a list of common honorific prefixes and suffixes used with nouns and proper nouns to show intimacy, humility, honor, or respect. Some may have shown up in pronoun discussions. While noun modifiers are technically adjectives, honorific prefixes/suffixes are different from normal adjectives in that they become part of the noun in usage, and the meaning of the modifying prefix/suffix is usually not taken literally - only added functionally to show respect or humility. Because Chinese words are usually formed also by combining multiple root characters, it is not always immediately apparent when using a polite version of a word that an honorific modifier is in use.| Traditional Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| 阿~ | 阿~ | ā | Contemporary and Classical | A prefix that shows affection or intimacy. Examples: 阿伯 ; 阿妹 ; 阿哥 ; 阿爸 etc. It may also be attached to the last character of a person's given name to address him/her intimately. Examples: 阿莲. More common in southern parts of China. | |
| 本~ | 本~ | běn | This / Our | Contemporary and Classical | A prefix for things affiliated to oneself. Examples: 本公司 ; 本校 etc. |
| 敝~ | 敝~ | bì | Unkempt/ragged | Contemporary and Classical | A prefix for things affiliated to oneself. Examples: 敝公司 ; 敝校 etc. |
| 為~ | 为~ | wéi | As | Classical | Examples: 為父 ; 為母 ; 為兄, 為師 etc. |
| 愚~ | 愚~ | yú | Unintelligent | Classical | Humble prefix: 愚兄, 愚见 |
| 鄙~ | 鄙~ | bǐrén | Lowly/unlearned | Classical | Humble prefix: 鄙意, 鄙见 |
| 奴~ | 奴~ | nú | Slave | Classical | Prefix for servants and slaves. Examples: 奴才，奴婢，奴家 |
| ~君 | ~君 | jūn | Man | Classical | A suffix used for a male friend or a respected person. |
| ~姬 | ~姬 | jī | Woman | Classical | A suffix used for a female friend, maiden. "Guniang" is sometimes used. |
| ~郎 | ~郎 | láng | Man | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for an intimate male friend or one's husband. |
| ~子 | ~子 | zǐ | Learned man | Classical | A suffix used for a wise or learned man. "Fuzi" is sometimes used. |
| 小~ | 小~ | xiǎo | Small, insignifican | Contemporary and Classical | Minimizes significance of oneself. Examples: 小人，小生，小女，小妾, 小店 Used often with personal surnames in contemporary Chinese: 小张，小明 as a diminutive. Related to usage of ~儿 in classical usage. |
| 大~ | 大~ | dà | big | Contemporary and Classical | Maximizes significance of something. Examples: 大名, 大慶, 大作, 大禮 |
| ~兄 | ~兄 | xiōng | Brother | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for an older male friend. Also ~兄弟 |
| ~公 | ~公 | gōng | Lord | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for a respected person. |
| ~足下 | ~足下 | zúxià | Beneath the feet | Classical | A suffix for a friend in writing a letter. |
| ~先生 | ~先生 | xiānshēng | Mr. | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for a person in a profession. |
| ~前輩 | ~前辈 | qiánbeì | Earlier Generation | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for an elder or a more senior person in the same profession as the speaker. |
| ~大人 | ~大人 | dàrén | Sir / Madam | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for an official or a person in authority. |
| ~氏 | ~氏 | shì | Surnamed | Classical | A suffix used after a surname to address someone not of personal acquaintance. |
| ~兒 | ~儿 | ér | Son / child | Classical | A suffix used for a young person. |
| ~哥 | ~哥 | gē | Elder brother | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for an older male friend or relative who is the same 辈分beìfèn. Also ~大哥， ~大哥哥，~小哥哥 |
| ~弟 | ~弟 | dì | Younger brother | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for a younger male friend or relative who is the same 辈分beìfèn. Also ~小弟，~小弟弟，~小老弟 |
| ~姐 | ~姐 | jiě | Elder sister | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for an older female friend or relative who is the same 辈分beìfèn. Also ~大姐，大姐姐，~小姐姐 |
| ~妹 | ~妹 | mèi | Younger sister | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for a younger female friend or relative who is the same 辈分beìfèn. Also ~小妹，~小妹妹，~妹子，~小妹子 |
| ~姨 | ~姨 | yí | aunt | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for an older female or relative +1 辈分beìfèn above self. Also ~阿姨，~姑姑，~姑 |
| ~叔 | ~叔 | shū | uncle | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for an older male or relative +1 辈分beìfèn above self. Also ~叔叔, ~大叔 |
| ~伯 | ~伯 | bó | grandpa | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for an older male or relative 2+ 辈分beìfèn above self or much older than self. Also ~阿伯，~伯伯, ~阿公 |
| ~婆 | ~婆 | pó | grandma | Contemporary and Classical | A suffix used for an older female or relative 2+ 辈分beìfèn above self or much older than self. Also ~阿婆, ~婆婆，~嬷嬷，~奶奶 |
| 老~ | 老~ | lǎo | old | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix for people one respects. Examples: 老总，老张，老兄，老弟，老婆，老公，老伯. Sometimes used as a suffix. |
| ~總 | ~总 | zǒng | chief | Contemporary | An honorific suffix for people who lead an important position. Examples: 周总，张总。 Also: ~董 周董，张董 |
| 聖~ | 圣~ | shèng | St. / Sage / Emperor | Contemporary and Classical | Used as a prefix to indicate holiness. May not necessarily be applied to only Catholic saints as a prefix, for example "孔圣" , literally means "Saint Confucius" or "Sage Confucius". Also used for things related to the emperor, for example: 圣宠, 圣 |
| 龍~ | 龙~ | lóng | Dragon | Classical | Prefix for things related to the emperor, for example: 龙体, 龍體欠安 ， 龍體無恙 etc. 龙颜, 龍顏大悅 ; 龍顏大怒 etc. |
| 鳳~ | 凤~ | fèng | Phoenix | Classical | Similar to 龍， used for queens and empresses etc. |
| 丈~ | 丈~ | zhàng | Elder | Contemporary and Classical | Examples: 丈人，丈母娘 |
| 太~ / 大~ | 太~ / 大~ | tài / dà | Elder | Contemporary and Classical | Examples: 太后 ，太父，太母/大母 |
| 薄~ | 薄~ | bó | thin / insignificant | Contemporary and Classical | Humble prefix used in reference to items belong to self. Examples: 薄技, 薄酒, 薄礼, 薄面 |
| 拙~ | 拙~ | zhuō | clumsy | Contemporary and Classical | Humble prefix used in reference to one's skill and idea. Examples: 拙笔, 拙见, 拙著, 拙荆 |
| 浅~ | 浅~ | qiǎn | shallow | Contemporary and Classical | Example: 浅见，浅识，浅学，浅职，浅知，浅说，浅闻 |
| 屈~ | 屈~ | qū | to bend | Contemporary and Classical | Examples: 屈驾、屈尊、屈身、屈己、屈膝 |
| 雅~ | 雅~ | yǎ | elegant | Contemporary and Classical | Examples: 雅教、雅量、雅兴、雅意、雅致 |
| 芳~ | 芳~ | fāng | fragrant, beautiful, wonderful | Contemporary and Classical | Examples: 芳邻, 芳龄, 芳名, 芳华 |
| 華~ | 华~ | huá | beautiful | Contemporary and Classical | Examples: 华诞、华翰、华堂、华宗 |
| 令~ | 令~ | lìng | beautiful | Contemporary and Classical | Examples: 令尊、令堂、令郎、令爱、令嫒、令兄、令弟、令婿、令侄 |
| 玉~ | 玉~ | yù | jade | Contemporary and Classical | Beautifying prefix for one's body to one's pictures. Examples: 玉成、玉音、玉体、玉照 |
| 高~ | 高~ | gāo | tall / high | Contemporary and Classical | Prefix that adds a "highly regarded", "highly above" connotation. Examples: 高见、高就、高龄、高论、高寿、高足 |
| ~下 | ~下 | xià | beneath | Contemporary and Classical | Example: 殿下、阁下、麾下、膝下、足下。 |
| 台~ | 台~ | tái | Contemporary and Classical | Derived from Chinese constellation 三台星官. Examples: 台驾, 台甫, 台鉴, 台端 related to 兄台 |
Verb complements
Similar to nouns, verbs can be complemented with honorific prefixes to form more polite versions. Below are some examples.| Traditional Chinese | Simplified Chinese | Pinyin | Literal Meaning | Contemporary or Classical Usage | Notes |
| 請~ | 请~ | qǐng | to request | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix when inviting another person to do something. Examples: 请教，请问 |
| 惠~ | 惠~ | huì | to gift | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix when requesting a gifting action from another person. Examples: 惠存, 惠临，惠顾，惠赠，惠允 |
| 拜~ | 拜~ | bài | to bow | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix when one's action may involve or impact the other person. Examples: 拜访，拜读，拜服，拜贺，拜托，拜望 |
| 賜~ | 赐~ | cì | to bestow | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix when requesting a gifting action from another person. Examples: 赐教，赐恩，赐复，赐见 |
| 奉~ | 奉~ | fèng | to offer | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix when one's action may impact the other person. Examples: 奉告, 奉还, 奉陪, 奉劝, 奉送 |
| 恭~ | 恭~ | gōng | to look forward | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix when one's action is out of due respect. Examples: 恭贺, 恭候, 恭请，恭迎 |
| 垂~ | 垂~ | chuí | to hang down | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix when one's receiving an honorable action from another person. Examples: 垂爱，垂青，垂问，垂念 |
| 敢~ | 敢~ | gǎn | to dare | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix when one's making a potentially inappropriate request. Examples: 敢问，敢请，敢劳，敢烦 |
| 劳~ | 劳~ | láo | to labor | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix when one's requesting an action that could trouble the other person. Examples: 劳驾，劳烦，劳步，劳神 |
| 謹~ | 谨~ | jǐn | to use care | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix when one's requesting an action be performed with care, often used in letters. Examples: 谨启,，谨复，谨言，谨肃，谨禀 |
| 見~ | 见~ | jiàn | to see | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix when inviting someone to do something to oneself. Examples: 见谅，见笑，见教 |
| 榮~ | 荣~ | róng | gloriously | Contemporary and Classical | An honorific prefix for an achieving action. Examples: 荣升，荣获，荣立，荣任 |
| 忝~ | 忝~ | tiǎn | to shame | Classical | Humble prefix used to indicate shamefulness or feeling of undeserving. Examples: 忝列, 忝在, 忝任 |
| 敬~ | 敬~ | jìng | to respect | Contemporary and Classical | Adds a sense of respect. Examples: 敬告、敬贺、敬候、敬请、敬佩、敬谢 |
| 屈~ | 屈~ | qū | to bend | Contemporary and Classical | Implies feeling bad about making or seeing someone endure some hardship or difficult situation. Examples: 屈就、屈居 |
| 俯~ | 俯~ | fǔ | to look down | Classical | Often used in letters to request someone to do something to oneself—implies a self-deprecating lower position. Example: 俯察, 俯就, 俯念, 俯允 |
| 光~ | 光~ | guāng | to lighten | Contemporary and Classical | Implies someone's action brings honor to oneself. Examples: 光顾、光临 |
| 過~ | 过~ | guò | to surpass | Contemporary and Classical | Implies one is not worthy of a praising action. Examples: 过奖、过誉 |
| 叨~ | 叨~ | tāo | to benefit from | Classical | Examples: 叨光、叨教、叨扰 |
| 鈞~ | 钧~ | jūn | Classical | Prefix for when requesting actions from a superior, often in writing. Examples: 鈞座, 鈞裁, 鈞簽, 鈞啟 | |
| 呈~ | 呈~ | chéng | to show | Classical | Examples: 呈正，呈报，呈请 |
| 進~ | 进~ | jìn | to advance | Contemporary and Classical | Examples: 进见，进言—honorifics for going to see someone and going to present something |
Other honorifics
There are innumerable words in the Chinese language with specific humble, respectful, or beautifying honorific connotations, in addition to the base meaning of the word. It is not possible to catalog them all, but some additional examples are provided in this section. These words are often used in lieu of a bland, neutral, or deprecating alternative to show deference, respect, or elegance. Just like with Chinese 成语, it is often difficult to translate these words into English or another language, because it would require an elaborate explanation of the meaning, metaphors, and nuances captured succinctly in the Chinese honorific equivalent.Respectful language
Additional examples:- 衛冕 verb: honorific to describe when someone is able to retain first ranking in a competition
- 駕臨 verb: honorific that describes someone's visit, e.g., 恭候大驾光临
- 名諱 noun: respectful version of the word "name", used with names of respected people
- 璧謝 verb: honorific for returning a gift and offering thanks
- 斧正 verb: used to ask someone to correct one's writing
- 借重 verb: leverage someone else's ability to help oneself
- 鼻祖 noun: honorific for pioneers in a field
- 高足 noun: honorific for someone's disciple
- 鼎力 adverb: indicate to someone they have your full support
Humble language
- 承乏 verb: humble word indicating you took a position only because it hasn't been filled by someone more qualified yet
- 綿薄 adjective: humble word to describe the help you offer someone
- 陋见, 浅见 noun: humble way to describe one's opinion
- 错爱 noun: humble way to describe how someone has been taking care of oneself. e.g., 承蒙错爱
- 刍议 noun: self-deprecating description of one's words
- 斗胆 adjective: self-deprecating descriptor used as a warning when someone is about to do or say something out of line/expectation, unreasonable, or out of the norm
- 聊供补壁: Lit. offer a painting that's only worthy of being used to patch your walls—humble way to gift a painting
- 涂鸦 verb: humble way to describe one's painting skill.
- 急就章 noun: humble way to describe one-self's work was completed in haste and lacks thought
Indirect language
- 作古、歸天、歸西、魂游地府、永眠、長眠、含笑九泉、無常、仙逝: Lit. became ancient, returned to heaven, soul wandered to the underworld, eternal sleep, entered Nine Springs with a smile, heavenly exit, etc. -- various expressions to describe someone's passing
- 掛花、掛彩: Lit. hang the flowers / hang the decors -- gun shot wound
- 升遐、驾崩、崩殂、大行: Lit. risen to faraway land / procession broken etc. -- various expressions for a king or emperor's death
- 坐化、圓寂、涅盤: Lit. changed/ascended while seated, attained perfection eliminated impurity, Nirvāṇa, etc—death of a monk/nun
- 乞骸骨: Lit. beg for the skeleton—retirement request for old government officials
- 見背: Lit. see back --- death of family elders
- 頓首: Lit. to stamp the ground with head—kowtow
- 千古: Lit. lasts a thousand years—in remembrance of the dead
- 冤家: Lit. destined/mortal enemies—lovers
- 棄養: Lit. given up to raise—parents passed away
- 抱恙: Lit. holding ailments—sick
- 龙体违和: Lit. dragon's body broke harmony—the king is sick
- 薄命: Lit. thin life—died young
- 百年归老: Lit. return to old place at 100 years—used when talking about people's eventual death through aging
Courteous language
- 勞駕：Lit. to labor your procession - used when asking someone for a favor / trouble someone for something
- 包涵：Lit. to contain - used when asking someone for forgiveness.
- 借光：Lit. borrow light - used to mean benefited by association to another person; now it can mean excuse me.
- 賜教：Lit. bestow teaching upon - when asking someone to teach you something
- 领教: Lit. receive teaching - when asking someone to teach you something
- 久違：Lit. long time apart - said courteously when you haven't seen someone in a long time
- 久仰：Lit. admired for a long time - said courteously when meeting someone you've heard of
- 托福：Lit. by your fortune - a thankful expression indicating one's attainment/accomplishment of something is due to another person
- 赏脸：Lit. give face - used when asking someone to be a guest
- 关照: Lit. port / gate visa - when asking someone to look after you / your business
- 不吝指教：Lit. not be stingy about passing knowledge - used when asking someone to teach something
- 恕不遠送：Lit. forgive me for not walking/accompanying you far - used when the host is sending their guests away
- 洗耳恭聽：Lit. cleaned ears to listen - prepared to listen attentively to you
- 不足掛齒：Lit. not enough to hang on your teeth - often used to humbly minimize the significance of one's help towards others
- 借花獻佛：Lit. borrow flower to gift to Buddha - often used to describe one's merely re-gifting a gift; implies no need to put too much significance on the gift
Elegant language
- 金蘭: Lit. gold orchid - used to describe sworn/god-brothers and sworn/god-sisters; metaphor implies the tight bond between sworn brothers/sisters is like a sharp sword able to break gold, and their aligned speech/opinion is fragrant to the senses like orchid.
- 芳名: Lit. fragrant / beautiful name - elegant alternative for the word "name" for a young female
- 千秋: Lit. thousand Autumns - elegant word for birthday
- 请留步: Lit. please stay your steps - used to tell someone they don't need to accompany you further
- 请用膳: Lit. please use meal - used to tell patrons or guests to eat
- 小便: Lit. little convenience - to take a leak
- 大便: Lit. big convenience - to take a dump
- 耳目一新: Lit. ears and eyes refreshed - describes encountering something new and interesting
- 告别, 握别, 揖别, 挥别, 吻别, 拜别, 饯别, 谢别, 赠别, 留别, 送别, 抛别, 惜别, 恋别, 阔别, 长别, 永别, 诀别
- 动笔, 命笔, 逸笔, 辍笔, 赘笔, 亲笔, 谨笔, 代笔, 草笔, 文笔, 御笔, 随笔, 闲笔, 余笔, 工笔, 润笔, 歪笔, 执笔, 妙笔, 练笔, 伏笔
Familial honorifics
Addressing own family members:
~: elders / intimacy
- Elderly: 老爷, 老爷子, 老奶奶; these are less used
- Parents: 老爸, 老妈, 老头; the suffix ~子 is used in some regions of China: 老头子，老妈子
- Husband and wife: 老公, 老婆
- Grandparents: 阿公，阿婆，阿嫲
- Parents: 阿爸，阿妈
- Siblings: 阿哥，阿姐，阿妹; note: 阿弟 is less used
- Uncles and aunts: 大伯，大姨，大姑母
- Wife of elder brother: 大嫂
- Elder siblings: 大哥，大姐
- Youngsters in the family: 小明，小芳; In classical Chinese the ~ suffix was used: 明儿，芳儿
- Younger sister: 小妹; note: 小弟 is usually not used towards own family member
- Elder sister: 家姐
- Sister in law: 家嫂
~: less used in contemporary speech; used more in formal writing.
- My grandfather: 家祖父
- My grandmother: 家祖母
- My father: 家父，家严
- My mother: 家母，家慈
- My uncle: 家叔, 家舅
- My elder brother: 家兄
- My elder sister: 家姐
- My relative: 舍亲
- My younger brother: 舍弟
- My younger sister: 舍妹
- My nephew: 舍侄; rare
~: less used in contemporary speech; used more in formal writing
- Your relative: 令亲
- Your father: 令尊 ，令严
- Your mother: 令堂 ，令慈
- Your siblings: 令兄，令弟，令妹; 令姐 is not used
- Your wife: 令夫人
- Your son: 令郎，令公子
- Your daughter: 令爱/嫒，令千金
- Your children: 贵子弟，贵子女
- Your parents: 贵家长
- Your wife: 贵夫人
- Your husband: 贵丈夫；rare
- Your wife: 尊夫人; sometimes in speech for formality
Salutations
- / : Dear
- : Revered
- / : Dear esteemed
- / : Dear exalted / dignified
Honorifics in letters and official documents
Chinese letter writing, especially in Classical Chinese, employs a highly complex system of unique honorifics and honorific rule sets.