Mary Berenson, née Mary Whitall Smith, was an art historian, now thought to have had a large hand in some of the writings of her second husband, Bernard Berenson.
Biography
Her father was Robert Pearsall Smith, her mother Hannah Whitall Smith. She studied at the Harvard Annex in 1884-1885. Here Mary met the Irish barrister Benjamin "Frank" Conn Costelloe, whom she married in 1885, having converted to Catholicism. This marriage was the occasion for the whole family, including her brother Logan Pearsall Smith and sister Alys Pearsall Smith to move to England in 1888. However, already in 1892 the couple separated, though Frank would not agree to divorce. Mary had two daughters with Frank Costelloe; Ray Strachey and Karin Stephen. Through the latter Mary was related by marriage to the Bloomsbury Group of English artists and literary figures, as her son-in-law Adrian Stephen was Virginia Woolf's brother. In 1888 in London she made the acquaintance of Bernard Berenson. With a dissatisfying marriage, she became an authority on art history and she took up in Italy with Berenson. Their/His book "The Venetion Painters of the Renaissance" was published in 1894 and it is said that it was Mary's mother who asked that Mary not take credit for her work. They eventually married in 1900 after her first husband died, although they both had affairs and Mary believed this was because they liked to hurt each other. Her US lecture tours were instrumental in developing an interest in Italian Renaissance art among wealthy American collectors during the first decade of the twentieth century. Subsequently, Berenson brought together a social circle at Villa I Tatti, the Berenson home, and developed its gardens. She hosted some of the most celebrated personalities of the period, including Edith Wharton, Gertrude Stein, Gabriele D'Annunzio, John Maynard Keynes, and Isabella Gardner. By 1927 Mary tired of entertaining, and left the duty of hosting to the couple's librarian Elizabeth Mariano. Mariano was one of Bernard's lovers, and Mary would much later write to give permission for Mariano to marry Bernard. In later life she was plagued by illness and by 1935 she was largely invalided. In 1940 she lost her eldest daughter to surgery complications, and she had to be left behind by her husband under the care of Mariano's sister.
