Dear John is an Americansitcom television series that aired on NBC from October 6, 1988 to July 22, 1992. It was originally based on the British sitcom of the same name. It was retitled Dear John USA when it was shown in the UK. During its four-season run, it was bounced to and from various time periods on Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday nights. It moved from its post-Cheers slot on Thursdays to a post-Night Court slot on Wednesdays in 1990.
Synopsis
The sitcom is set in New York City. Judd Hirsch stars as John Lacey, a teacher at a preparatory school in Manhattan. After ten years of marriage, one day he returns home and finds a Dear John letter: his wife, Wendy, is leaving him for his best friend. When the court grants Wendy the house and custody of their son, Matthew, John moves into an apartment in the Rego Park neighborhood of Queens. Six months after the divorce, John joins the One-To-One Club, a support group for people who are divorced and single. The series chronicles John's life and the lives of his new friends at the One-to-One Club.
Characters
The original group consisted of:
John Lacey, a school teacher who tries—not always successfully—to keep his life from falling apart after his acrimonious, financially devastating divorce.
Louise Mercer, the founder and leader of the One-to-One Club, an Englishwoman whose conversation frequently returns to the topic of sex. Has a child named Nigel out of wedlock in season 2.
Kirk Morris, a cocky self-styled ladies' man who is a preening narcissist and habitual liar.
Kate McCarron, a beautiful divorcée with some self-image issues. She and John share an attraction, but she eventually marries a police officer in season 4, while remaining a regular attendee at club meetings. Kate also opens a restaurant in season 4.
Ralph Drang, a shy, unconfident milquetoast who works as a tollbooth collector. His marriage lasted less than 6 hours; his Bulgarian wife deserted him at the wedding reception. Noted for his extremely nasal, whining voice, and his propensity for being manipulated by Kirk. Seen only in seasons 1-3; he then simply disappears. After several episodes, it is briefly mentioned he 'graduated' from the group, but no details are offered.
Bonnie Philbert, a talkative retiree who often references her sexually adventurous past. Seen infrequently in the very earliest episodes, Mrs. Philbert effectively becomes a regular by mid-season 1.
Tom, a very tall and extremely quiet man, almost always seen sporting a bow-tie. He does not actually ever speak at any meeting, and usually sits near the back—but eventually becomes Mrs. Philbert's ongoing boyfriend.
Later additions were:
Mary Beth Sutton, a beautiful, naive young Southerner from a wealthy background. She eventually finds work as a soap opera writer. Added midway through season 2, staying through the end of the series.
Denise, who frequently drops by group meetings as she attends the weight control group across the hall at the community center. Seen only in season 3, beginning partway through.
Ben Conners, a maintenance man at the Rego Park Community Center. He becomes involved with Louise and is friendly with the group. Seen throughout season 4.
Annie Marino, an aspiring actress who joins the group after her husband deserts their marriage—and sublets their apartment to Kirk without telling her. Added partway through season 4.
Recurring characters:
Wendy Lacey, John's ex-wife. Though she left John, she later decides she wants another child with him. She goes to extreme lengths to make this happen without trying to actually win him back.
Matthew Lacey, John's school age son who lives with his mother. John and Matthew have a good relationship, despite their limited time together.
Brad Durman, an often-weaselly fellow teacher of John's. Seen in seasons 2-3.
Dr. Hendricks, the headmaster at the school where John teaches. Seen in seasons 2-4.
Chow Ling, a recent immigrant who attends meetings in the community center both to learn English and to quit smoking. Seen in seasons 2-3.
Mitch Kurland, a police officer who marries Kate. Seen in season 4 only.
Curtis and Calvin, employees at Kate's Place. Seen in season 4 only.
Episodes
Reception
Critical response
of New York magazine previewed the pilot episode, in which John Lacey tries to attend a support group "for the recently singled", and stumbles instead into a meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous. "I found this funny, and maybe even profound", Leonard wrote. NBC launched the show two days before Empty Nest, another sitcom about a middle-aged man who recently lost his wife. "Some talented people run around in them agreeably", said Leonard, commenting on both shows.
Ratings
In its first season, the sitcom was part of NBC's Thursday night lineup. It attracted the eleventh largest audience of all prime time television programs in the United States for the 1988–89 season. Its viewer share declined in later seasons. NBC moved its time slot several times.
